Can family help carry their loved one’s coffin?

We’re often asked whether this is possible — and the answer is yes, if you wish, and equally supported if you prefer not to.

For some, helping to carry a loved one’s coffin feels like a deeply personal and meaningful part of saying goodbye. For others, it feels more comforting to step back and let our team take care of everything.

Whatever you decide, we’re there to support you. Our experienced team will offer gentle guidance, explain what’s involved, and be alongside you every step of the way. And should you prefer, it is truly our honour to carry your loved one on our shoulders, with dignity and respect.

There is no right or wrong choice — only what feels right for you and your family